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Is Jesus Asleep in Your Boat?

Are you going through a tough time? Do you want to shout, like the disciples did in their wave-torn boat, “Don’t you care about me at all God?” If so, read on for comfort and encouragement. You will find He has been with you all along.

That day when evening came, he said to his disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.” Leaving the crowd behind, they took him along, just as he was, in the boat. There were also other boats with him. A furious squall came up, and the waves broke over the boat, so that it was nearly swamped. Jesus was in the stern, sleeping on a cushion. The disciples woke him and said to him, “Teacher, don’t you care if we drown?”

He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.

He said to his disciples, “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?”

They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”

Mark 4:35-41

Do you ever feel that your life is like that little boat in the storm? That you are being tossed around by the waves, ready to capsize at any moment? Where is Jesus? Why would He leave me to suffer like this?

Maybe you have even gotten mad at God, like the disciples did, shouting, “Don’t you even care about me at all?”

The trials and struggles in our lives have a way of making us desperate. Desperate for relief. We want Jesus to take it all away. We want Jesus to calm the storm. But sometimes, like those disciples in that wave-battered boat, we miss the comfort that was right there with us all along.

Let’s look at this scene with different eyes, shall we?

First of all, the trip across the sea was Jesus’ idea. Look back in the passage. It says, “he said to his disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.” He wanted them to go through that storm. He had a purpose and a plan. Getting around the storm was not His plan. Going through it was. If we truly believe that God is in charge of every aspect of our lives, past, present, future, we can trust that whatever storm we are in the midst of, He put us there.

Secondly, Jesus never left them. He was always there. He was asleep, but the Bible says that God doesn’t slumber nor sleep. Do we really think that Jesus didn’t know what was happening as He dozed in the back of the boat? Of course not. He knows everything. And He is always there. We may feel that He is absent or sleeping, but He is not.

Finally, I want you to think of this: if a little child was on that boat, what do you think he would have done? When they are scared, children run to safety. They cling to their mother’s legs; they bury their faces in their dad’s chest. I have a sense that a scared little child on that boat would have curled up right next to Jesus. The Bible reports that He had to tell his disciples “don’t hinder the little children from coming to me.” They were drawn to Him. They clung to Him. They knew He was safe. Instead of shouting at Jesus to wake up or accusing Him of not caring, a little child would have snuggled up right next to Him – the safest place on that boat.

During the storms of our lives, there is a tendency to shout out in anger or wallow in perceived feelings of abandonment. We forget what the disciples forgot: God is in our boat. GOD. The maker of heaven and earth. Nothing is impossible to Him. Nothing is too complicated for Him. Nothing is out of His control. Instead, we simply need to curl up next to Jesus, cling to Him and ride out the storm.

Is Jesus asleep in your boat? Go cling to Him. It’s the safest place you’ll find.


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This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment from a qualified mental health professional. Cornerstones for Parents is not liable for any advice, tips, techniques, and recommendations the reader chooses to implement.

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Laura Kuehn, LCSW

Laura is a licensed clinical social worker who offers individual therapy to women and moms in Connecticut. She is the author of More Than a Conqueror, A Christian Kid's Guide to Winning the War on Worry. Cornerstones for Parents is the place she combines some of the things she is most passionate about: God's word, parenting and mental health.


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