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Bible Verses that Address Common Behavior Problems in Children

August 2, 2011 | By | 5 Replies More
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Christian parents who saturate their children’s day with the love of God will naturally want to incorporate His standards during times of training and discipline.  However, let us remember that God’s Word should be used to heal, not punish.  It is a band-aid, not a weapon.

The collection of verses below can be used with your children when their hearts are soft following a misbehavior.  You can also incorporate these truths during every-day conversation, while reading stories together, or during family devotion times.

These verses are a good compliment to our Heart of the Matter Parenting Cards as well as our method for more effective time outs.  All of these verses are taken from the Contemporary English Version of the Bible – a translation that is well-suited for children of any age.

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God teaches us how to live right:

Titus 2:11-12:  “God has shown us how kind he is by coming to save all people. He taught us to give up our wicked ways and our worldly desires and to live decent and honest lives in this world.”

The Holy Spirit, our Comforter, helps us to behave:

Galatians 5:22-23: “God’s Spirit makes us loving, happy, peaceful, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and self-controlled. There is no law against behaving in any of these ways.”

We invite lots of problems into our lives if we can’t control ourselves:

Proverbs 25:28:  “Losing self-control leaves you as helpless as a city without a wall.”

Sometimes it is hard to do right, but God promises to help us in those times:

1 Corinthians 10:13:  “You are tempted in the same way that everyone else is tempted. But God can be trusted not to let you be tempted too much, and he will show you how to escape from your temptations.”


God doesn’t want a little of us to obey Him.  He wants ALL of us to obey Him:

Leviticus 18:4: “I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.”

 It is never too late to turn from the wrong things we do and obey God:

Nehemiah 1:9:   “But you also said that no matter how far away we were, we could turn to you and start obeying your laws. Then you would bring us back to the place where you have chosen to be worshiped.” 

Obedience brings many blessings, such as friendship with God:

John 14:23:“Jesus replied: If anyone loves me, they will obey me. Then my Father will love them, and we will come to them and live in them.”

Wholesome talk

We need to use what we say to help others feel better, not hurt them:

Ephesians 4:29:  “Stop all your dirty talk. Say the right thing at the right time and help others by what you say.”

Controlling what we say is hard, but if you work at it, it will be easier to behave in other areas too:

James 3:2:  “All of us do many wrong things. But if you can control your tongue, you are mature and able to control your whole body.”

 Don’t start arguments, stop them!

Proverbs 15:1:  A kind answer soothes angry feelings, but harsh words stir them up.”

Treatment of others

Put others first, before yourself, and you will please God:

Philippians 2:3:  “Don’t be jealous or proud, but be humble and consider others more important than yourselves.”

God showed great kindness to us by sending Jesus.  We need to show this same kindness to others:

Ephesians 4:31-32:“Stop being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each other or ever be rude. Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.”

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Category: Developing Godly Character, Discipline, Effective Tools and Techniques, Featured Articles, Parenting Through the Bible, Tips for Parents

Laura Kuehn, LCSW

About the Author

Laura Kuehn, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker specializing in children and families. CfP is the place she combines some of her very favorite things: writing, parenting and God's word. She loves encouraging parents to build their families upon Jesus, the one true Cornerstone. She is happily married to a wonderfully supportive husband and is the mother of two delightfully inspiring children.

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  1. These are wonderful heart passages!

  2. Tonya says:

    My daughter(14) thinks she’s grown! I really need the Lord’s help, to open her eyes, ears, heart & spirit, to His word! Thank you, Jesus!!

  3. Jason Beal says:

    I am truly lost with my child right now. At 14, she has now run away 4 times, experimented with drugs, and is exploring the possibilities of sex, lying, and stealing. I am a former Marine. I have tried just about everything from spanking, grounding, removing all freedoms, endless chores, softer approaches, she has even been face to face with local law enforcement threading her to change her ways or face them. She refuses to believe in God, yet I show her examples all the time. I feel hopeless right now and would love some advice.

    • Hi Jason,

      I am so sorry that you are going through all of this with your daughter. It is heartbreaking to see our children make such bad decisions. I am assuming that you have services involved such as counseling (individual or family) – but if not, I would suggest that you try to find someone you can trust. If you have a church family, you can ask a leader for recommendations or even your pediatrician.

      In the meantime, I would not underestimate the power of prayer in these situations. Stand over her and pray for her as she sleeps. Start your day asking God to give you hope and wisdom. I would also meditate on the nature of God – He wants to restore people. His main goal and objective is restoration of people who are lost – that is why He sent Jesus. Scripture says that His desire is that none should perish (2 Peter 3:9).

      Read stories in the Bible about people who have been redeemed from hopeless situations (David, Elijah, Abraham, etc). Talk to others who have traveled the same path with their children come out of the other side.

      Please do not lose hope. God loves your daughter and He loves you too. He is in the midst of this and has not left you. I recently received a lot of comfort from a book called Disappointment with God by Philip Yancey. I highly recommend it.

      I have said a prayer for you and your family. God bless,

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